
Ok, so this year one of my resolutions is to teach my kids the importance of RESPECT!! It seems they respect and listen and on their best behaviors for everyone else except for mom and dad. I guess it is just like that, but since I homeschool it is very important for me to teach this to my children. I am not only their mom, cook, chauffer, maid, etc, but also their Teacher. It is sometimes difficult for them to distinguish between the two. So, this year we are working on that.
I'm usually a softy when it comes to discipline. I will punish, but not always follow through. I know and have always known that it is very important to follow through or the children won't take me serious and therefore get the respect I deserve. So, we were in the grocery store only picking up a couple of items and my daughter really felt like she could carry more than just a 5lb. bag of flour. Well, I thought this was plenty. I explained to her if she dropped it the seams could bust and flour would be everywhere. My son had a couple of items and she wanted to be just like him so she starts her pouting. As we are walking up to the cashier to get in line Ashlyn is really starting to cry and being the dramatic kid that she is, I tried to calm her down before she exploded. While doing this she drops the flour and what do you know....there is a seam that busted and flour started to come out. So, I calmly picked up the flour, walked out of line and headed back down the aisles to put everything up we had in our hands. I told them to not speak to each other or myself until I calmed down and made them sit completely away from each other in the car. I had to go by the bank and let me tell you it was the quietest ride ever. They had no idea what was going on and they knew how upset I was. Once we got home, I told each of them to go to their own rooms and not come out until I told them they could. It was about 30 minutes and Ashlyn tried to come out, but Braydon stayed in his room until we had to leave again. When I told him to come out, he handed me a paper. I wasn't sure what it was and he was looking down so I thought it might be some type of apology. As I grabbed the paper and flipped it over I noticed how colorful it was and then read the only thing he had written.... #1 MOM..
I just wanted to share this with you. Braydon is a very sweet boy and is so smart and he knew how upset I was. It made me tear up for a moment as I was hugging him. These are the times I absolutely love. It's been a few years since he has told me I am The Best Mom Ever....